The movie “Spotlight” has received six Oscar nominations,
including best picture, and on February 28 when the Oscars are presented, clergy
sex abuse survivors all across the country will be watching and cheering.
The story focuses on the Boston
Globe journalists who exposed the patterns of clergy sex abuse
and cover-ups in the Boston Archdiocese. But for many of the survivors who will
be watching, we know the story is much bigger than Boston and much broader than Catholicism. Many of us were not abused by Catholic priests but rather by Baptist
pastors and by clergy in other faith groups. Yet we will all be cheering for “Spotlight”
because we all share similar experiences. We too know the horror of sexual
abuse perpetrated in the name of religious authority and the nightmare of
religious institutions that turn a blind eye.
It would be a mistake to view the “Spotlight” story
as pertaining only to Catholics. To indulge that sort of thinking would be to
engage in the same sort of denial that allowed the Boston abuses to persist for
so long. The lessons of “Spotlight” are not merely about “those bad
Catholics” but rather are lessons about what
one of “Spotlight’s” screenwriters, Josh Singer, called the “collective looking away.” From
beginning to end, the movie illustrates the natural human tendency to want to
turn away from realities too repugnant to acknowledge, and it shows us the role
that such denial can have in allowing for horrific crimes and cover-ups.
Clergy sex abuse and cover-ups are not just a Catholic
problem. “In reality, the likelihood is that more children are sexually abused
in Protestant churches than in Catholic churches.” Those are the words of Boz Tchividjian, a former sex crimes prosecutor, a
law professor at Liberty University, the founder of GRACE, and a grandson of
Billy Graham. He’s a man who has devoted his life to dealing with these sorts
of crimes and to understanding the dynamics of collusion within faith
communities. Tchividjian knows what he’s talking about, and the available data backs him up.
I know that Tchividjian’s words are probably gut-wrenching for
many of you in Baptistland, but I beg you to ponder them and to not turn away
from this reality.
For those who might like to more closely consider the data,
I suggest the Insurance Journal and Ethics
Daily as starting points. I wish we had even better data, and I have long
advocated that Baptist churches need to cooperatively maintain clergy abuse reports
in denominational offices so that congregants might at least be informed about
church-hopping abusive ministers and so that we might better understand the
extent of the problem. But the day when Baptists decide to keep records on
their clergy and to systematically share ugly information has not yet arrived,
and that is part of why the data is so limited.
But let me be clear, I have no interest in a debate about
whose clergy abuse more kids. The numbers are plenty awful for both Catholics and Protestants, and for both,
the numbers are undoubtedly the product of underreporting, which means the real
numbers are probably even higher.
Clergy sex abuse and cover-ups are an epidemic problem for all faith groups. The problem is facilitated
by individual and institutional denial, and in this sense, Catholics and
Protestants have far more similarities than differences.
Because the human tendency toward denial is so common, faith
groups need to have systems in place to try to counteract it. This is where
Baptists have fallen behind as compared to many other faith groups. While mainline
Protestant groups have developed denominational boards for receiving reports
about clergy sex abuse, for keeping records on abuse reports, and for warning
congregations, Southern Baptists and most other Baptist and evangelical faith groups
have not. (The American Baptist Churches USA are the exception; even though
American Baptists also profess the autonomy of the local church, they have
cooperatively allowed for the implementation of regional review boards in an
effort to assure a measure of clergy accountability.)
This failure to keep denominational records on clergy abuse
reports is a critical safety gap for Baptists because less than ten percent of
child molesters wind up in the criminal justice system. This means that it is
up to the institutions who afford clergy the mantle of trust to also do the job
of policing their ranks and of warning congregations when the risks of trusting
a particular individual become too great. When religious institutions fail to
step up to the plate with their own functional accountability systems, ninety
percent of clergy child molesters will likely slip through the cracks and
church-hop their way to new prey.
Every day I continue to wonder how much longer Baptists will
stew in their own denial, refusing to see the depth and difficulty of the
problem that confronts them. Given the news released this week from the Baptist General Convention
of Texas, it appears as though Baptists will remain mired in the quicksand of denial.
The largest statewide Baptist denominational entity announced
that it was doing away with its confidential file of abusive ministers who had
been reported by churches based on “substantial evidence,” a confession, or a
conviction, and was instead going to focus on providing churches with resources
for prevention. Though the BGCT’s file was always seriously flawed in practice
-- because the BGCT would receive reports only from churches (who almost never
report their own clergy) and because the BGCT did not proactively seek to warn
other churches but simply kept the information in a closed file cabinet -- many
clergy abuse survivors had hoped that, eventually, the BGCT would amend its practice
so as to also accept clergy abuse reports from the victims themselves. That
hasn’t happened, and instead the BGCT has doubled down on denominational do-nothingness.
Its press release makes clear its view that the local congregation is where responsibility
for dealing with “clergy sexual misconduct” must rest. (The very fact that the BGCT
uses the minimizing language of “misconduct” says a lot about the extent of
their denial … but I digress.)
The goal of prevention is a good one, but Baptists persist
in sidestepping the most powerful prevention strategy of all. Most child
molesters have multiple victims, and so the best means to prevent abuse in the
future is to assure that, when someone tells about abuse in the past, the
report is dealt with responsibly. This is what Baptists are not doing.
Prevention requires realistic response protocols, and realistic
response protocols must include the use of outsiders. Many other faith groups
have learned this lesson, but Baptists still haven’t.
For Baptist denominational officials to persist in telling
clergy abuse survivors that they must go to the church of the accused pastor is
like telling them they should go to the den of the wolf who savaged them. It is
hurtful from the get-go and many abuse survivors won’t even attempt it -- and for
good reason. Not only will the local church likely lack the expertise, but
necessarily, it will also lack the objectivity to responsibly consider an abuse
report against its own pastor. In the typical scenario, churches lash out against
the accuser. Then, what often happens is that the pastor is simply allowed to
move on to a new church, sometimes in another state, with few records kept and even
fewer records shared.
For those children who wind up being sexually abused by a pastor who has moved on after abuse allegations at a prior church, the fact that the pastor was merely "allowed" to move on and not "assigned" is a fact that does not diminish by one iota the pain and trauma of the children. Nor does this fact diminish the moral repugnance of a denominational system that turns a blind eye and refuses to intervene.
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Thanks to Baptist News Global for picking up this column and publishing it under "Perspectives." (Baptist News Global is not affiliated with the Southern Baptist Convention.)