I'll be facilitating a yoga session at the annual SNAP Conference in Washington D.C. this summer. If you can, please come join me!
Who: Survivors of clergy sex abuse
Who: Survivors of clergy sex abuse
What: SNAP
conference 2013
When: July 26-28, 2013
Where: Washington D.C.
SNAP, the Survivors’
Network of those Abused by Priests, is the largest international support group
for women and men who were sexually abused by religious authority figures –
i.e., by priests, preachers, ministers, deacons, nuns and others. It is a
nonprofit organization that is independent of any religious group and that
carries no connections to any church or denominational entity.
The conference takes place
from Friday July 26 to Sunday July 28, and the yoga session will be one of the
breakout events at the conference. It will be a come-as-you-are chair yoga
session that anyone can participate in even if they’ve never done yoga before.
No mat needed. So come one, come all!
Here’s why I’m excited about
yoga at the SNAP conference. A regular yoga practice can be an
effective tool for dealing with post-traumatic stress disorder, which is
something many abuse survivors struggle with. Yoga’s effectiveness has been
demonstrated through pilot programs funded by the Pentagon, and based on the
clinical results of those programs, the military is now incorporating yoga into
many veterans’ centers and veterans’ hospitals. Yoga can lower cortisol, the
stress hormone; it can activate the parasympathetic nervous system, which is
calming; and it can deactivate the limbic brain, which is often overactive in
people with a history of serious trauma.
So, the SNAP conference would
be a good place to try an introductory yoga session for yourself. And whether
or not you can make it to the SNAP conference, think about giving yoga a try.
If it can benefit veterans with PTSD issues, then it can benefit clergy sex abuse
survivors as well.
I’ll also be a featured
speaker for one of the plenary sessions at the SNAP conference.
My topic is “Baptistland: Where we’ve been, where we’re going, and lessons
learned.” I’ll also be sharing bits of my own story, including my thoughts on what
“cancer times two” has taught me about the trauma of childhood sex abuse.
I’m truly honored to be part
of this event. You can find out more about the SNAP conference and register for it here.
Trauma psychologist Peter
Levine wrote that “trauma is not what happens to us, but what we hold inside us
in the absence of an empathetic witness.” I often think that one of the most
powerful healing graces of SNAP is that it provides a forum through which
clergy abuse survivors can do for one another what faith communities – and often
even our own families – could not bring themselves to do. It provides a forum
through which we ourselves can bear witness to one another’s trauma. So,
whether or not you can make it to the conference, I hope you’ll consider
the possibility of connecting with a SNAP group in
your area.
Have some questions? Need
more info about the conference? Contact Barbara Dorris at snapdorris@gmail.com
/ 312-455-1499.
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Want to understand more about
the PTSD effects of child sex abuse? Watch this YouTube video, published May 23, 2013. Attorney Eric
MacLeish talks about his own PTSD struggles in adulthood resulting from sexual
abuse in childhood. He became dysfunctional; his personal life crumbled; his marriage
fell apart; his work went by the wayside; and he couldn’t even go to Boston for
a while because it triggered too many memories and flashbacks. “I was a tough
guy,” says MacLeish, “but I couldn’t deal with this until I was in my mid-50’s.”